Parents Can Help Children Make Friends With Books, Words and Numbers: What doesn’t work and what works – Dr. Morton Botel

January 16, 2008

There is a new wave of interest on the part of parents who want to know what works to help their young children become proficient in the skills and strategies of reading and math, get better achievement scores and, equally important, develop as lifetime readers. They want to nurture not only their children’s minds but also to have fun with them while doing so. The problem is that most of the textbook programs, computer programs and homework assignments that purport to meet those goals over the last two or three decades simply do not work. In that regard, Anne Lewis, national expert on education policy, in a recent Phi Delta Kappan article, pointed out that, “The pundits are now admitting that the law has done little to improve real achievement…(instead) it fosters curriculum and instructional decisions that run completely counter to higher-end learning or research-based knowledge about what stimulates students at all levels of ability to want to work hard.”

But until schools become wiser, parents can make significant contributions that enable their children to become thoughtful and strategic learners by doing collaborative research-proven activities. Here are examples of such activities grounded in current cognitive learning theory:

READING AND LEARNING ABOUT WORDS TOGETHER

Do Sustained Silent Reading, Reading Aloud and Sharing Together.
Set up regular times of a half hour or so a couple of times a week when everyone in the family reads silently something they have chosen.

End the period by having family member share or read aloud something that stood out for them.

Do Guided Reading Together.
Set up regular times of 45 minutes or so two or three times a week. Choose books that children can read with some fluency. Avoid frustrating books. Engage children in conversation that focus attention on the title and the illustrations

You read the piece aloud so that they hear the intonations of speech rather than having them begin by reading word by word

Do echo reading (You read a line and the child echoes) and choral reading (both of you read the lines together.)

At various points in the story have them talk about the characters and actions and predict what will happen next.

When finished share responses to “What stood out for you?”

“Do grammar” together through sentence and word combining investigations by arranging and rearranging words and their grammatical forms.

Take words from the story and show the child how to combine and recombine them into as many sentences as they can. The child writes each of the sentences correctly capitalized and punctuated. For example, if you wrote the following words and some of their forms on individual cards and played the game have “How many sentences can you make?” you could make many sentences. This activity provides practice in choosing Standard English grammatical form and word order, punctuation, capitalization and spelling.

I am he home want cry to school go

me is him wants cries goes

was crying went

going

You will get such sentences as.

I am going to school.

He was crying.

Was he crying?

I want him to go.

He wants me to go home.

Sentence Making and the Word Making activity that follow involve the child in doing investigations, not just mindless drill. In the process the child uses many senses: talking, movement and writing. This practice fosters insights in intuitive grammar and correctness in speaking and writing Standard English.

Do phonics together through letter-pattern combining investigations by arranging, rearranging and combining letters and letter patterns.

Take letters and letter patterns from the story which when combined and recombined result in a number of words. For example, write the following letters on individual cards and play the game of “How Many Words Can You Make?”

ook ow l n s h ike ake

You will get such words as: look, like, lake, hike, and low… DO NUMBER PATTERN INVESTIGATIONS TOGETHER Play the game of “How many ways?” together.

Instead of just practicing isolated number facts like 2+3=5, have the child see how many ways they can put 5 pennies in two boxes. If they keep a record they will find six different possibilities, which can be represented by number sentences. This might be the order of their findings.

2+3=5, 4+1=5, 5+0=5, 3+2=5, 0+5=5 AND 1+4=5

Then they might notice or you can help them see that a nice way to record the results in a vertical column would be:

0+5=5

1+4=5

2+3=5

3+2=5

4+1=5

5+0=5

Play ‘What’s My Rule?”together

1 2 ___ 4 5 6

___ 2 4 6 ___ 10 ___ 14

A C E F ___ ___ K ___

2, 4 3, 5 5, 7 9, ___ 13___ ____ ____

Tell stories together about numbers.

Tell stories about a number or number sentence and have the child tell you stories. Write them in a journal where you might keep record of other stories and observations made by the child.

2 I have two hands I spent two dimes for ice cream.

Please put two spoons of sugar in my tea.

2+3=5

Jill has two brothers and three sisters. She has five siblings.

There are two cats and three dogs in the pet shop window. How many pets are in the window?Three space pilots went to the moon to rescue two of their friends stranded there.

Telling number stories helps the child understand that there are an unlimited number of real world or imaginary events or conditions that can be represented by a number or number sentence. In this activity the child gets to read his or her own words.

By providing the kinds of experiences presented above, parents, tutors and teachers will produce the promised results: a lasting friendship with books words and numbers; a friendship that will result in strong family ties and strategic academic skillfulness and fun in the process.

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The above activities are taken from two new programs addressed to parent, tutors and teachers by Dr. Morton Botel: The Botel Reading Milestone Program and The Botel Math Workshop Program.
For more details on these programs go to: www.botelbridgestoliteracy.org